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'Is there anything good about men?'

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 20:00

Just a little side dish to the thread about orgasms

Chew and ponder...

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AnyFucker · 18/02/2009 20:04

god, that was boring lol

I gave up after the 1st paragraph

< philistine emoticon >

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yama · 18/02/2009 20:13

I read the first paragraph and the conclusion.

The conclusion was quite interesting. I didn't see the orgasms thread (sob).

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BarcodeZebra · 18/02/2009 20:16

Yes.

It's our low self esteem.

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LucyEllensmummy · 18/02/2009 20:25

feck, i didnt get much further - seriously badly written.

Where is the orgasm thread???

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 20:29

orgams thread on AIBU

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LucyEllensmummy · 18/02/2009 20:35

are you a scientist M.Eve? Intriguing nickname

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 20:36

It's MT!

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 20:37

and in me dreams!

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 20:56

maybe in 10 years!

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ABetaDad · 18/02/2009 21:01

Scan down the linked article but just read the bolded sentences to get the gist.

The orgasm thread is better though.

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ABetaDad · 18/02/2009 21:06

Actually - just had a thought about the one thing in the article that did really catch my eye.

Only 40% of men who have ever lived went on to have children but 80% of women did.

Its the same in all animal populations. As the artcile says, males tend to get killed doing extreme or dangerous stuff (e.g hunting, fighting) before they have kids or tend to not have childen because they are at the extreme low end of mental ability.

Hey that makes me an extraordinarily evolutionarily sucessful male having had 2 kids!

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MyNameIsInigoMontoya · 18/02/2009 21:06

I read it all - it's heavy going the way it's written/printed, but interesting - some food for thought!

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 21:11

It would ABetaDad, but the genes in you will have been carried in both male and female bodies throughout evolutuonary time - just as in me they will have been in males too. The big corrolate is probably because males are statisically shown to endulge in more risky behaviiour than females, not that they have faced more general risk.

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yama · 18/02/2009 21:12

You read it all Inigo? Prepare to die.

(Sorry: it's from the film)

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 21:15

In other words, we are all exraoprdinarily successful. But thats not forgetting also blood relatives. Some brothers will have forsaken mating opportunity (or lack of it more like) to provide protection/sustenence for blood relevives - sisters, neices, nephews. Just becasue an individual doesn't mate, doesn;t mean his genes don;t carry on in the gene pool. This is the environment cooperation and alturism evoluved

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LucyEllensmummy · 18/02/2009 21:18

MT dont become a scientist, you will be poor and frustrated

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ABetaDad · 18/02/2009 21:20

MiTochondrialEve - so men can be selfless, lay down their life for others, and forsake mating?

Well thats a bit of a different take on the usual media stereotype of men being selfish, cowardly, lazy good for nothings who would mate with anything given half a chance.

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 21:33

Oh. yes, and women can too. Men are more risky though, take more risks to mate or impress females, which notches up their mortality rate also.

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 21:36

Aw, LEM. You sound like your talking from expereince.

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MiTochondrialEve · 18/02/2009 21:46

Great food for thought Inigo, I agree!

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27T · 19/02/2009 15:18

We're all rubbish - end of discussion.

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MiTochondrialEve · 19/02/2009 18:11

you male or female 27T. The link is actually very positive about men, if you read it.

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LeQueen · 19/02/2009 22:43

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BarcodeZebra · 21/02/2009 21:24

Your unutterable perfection must be a heavy load LeQueen. But what do I know? I'm shit after all.

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DadInsteadofMum · 21/02/2009 23:17

Folding maps?

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