Hello, not sure if anyone has any advice.
I have 2 children with my ex partner (boy aged 4 & girl aged 7). We split up over three years ago.
I met my current partner 2 years ago (due to be married in 2 weeks). About 18 months ago My ex asked me to take our daughter in because she couldn't control her and she didn't want her living with her anymore so we reluctantly agreed, i say reluctantly because we didn't want to split the children up. Anyway for the past 15 months my daughter has lived with us and at weekends we have our son and everything has been fine. Over past 4 months my daughter has stayed at her mum's on a few occasions, well last night we picked her up and she was upset saying she now wants to move pack to her mum's. My daughter proceeded to tell us that her mum was crying and said if she wants to move back she should ask us to which she did, it was so difficult to explain to my daughter why this wouldn't work but the truth is that she was not doing well i'm her mum's care, the social services were involved and her personal hygiene and education was suffering. Well over the past 15 months she has improved dramatically, she has moved up 4 reading grades in the first 6 months alone & She did seem happy up until last night.
We really dont know what to do for the best, do we just ride it out and hope she cheers up and do we give in and let her mum take her back.
Any advise would be greatly appreciated.
J
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jimbob1980 · 28/01/2019 09:55
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