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JT1977 · 14/10/2016 13:53

Hi, my partner and I have been together for 5 years. I have been living in our home with her which she legally owns for the past 4 years.
I gave up work 3 1/2 years ago to become a stay home dad and take care of our 6 month old son.
Now she wants me to leave, do I have any rights to stay in the home given I do not own the property?
As I have been the home maker for almost 4 years I have nothing if she makes me leave.

Thank you

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JT1977 · 14/10/2016 13:54

Sorry should have said we are not married

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HeCantBeSerious · 14/10/2016 13:54

Probably not. Sorry.

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Akire · 14/10/2016 13:55

No as not married but would expect some arraignment to pay deposits for rent if you have not been working or time to get a job and save up a deposit.

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Unlockable · 14/10/2016 13:56

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NerrSnerr · 14/10/2016 13:58

I really don't think so, sorry. You have put yourself in a really vulnerable position giving up work when you're not married and don't own the house.

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Penfold007 · 14/10/2016 14:02

You need specialist advice on this and quickly. As the primary carer you may need to stay put for now as you and your child have rights. Has this break up coincided with your child starting reception and changes in child care requirements?

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JT1977 · 14/10/2016 14:04

Yeah as I suspected, oh well, thanks for the replies

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AllPowerfulLizardPerson · 14/10/2016 14:08

Probably not, though you could seek a specific order, on the grounds that it is your DC's home and you are primary carer.

But can you actually afford to run the house?

It might be better to see if you can get back any money you've put into the house (what have you paid for?) and make a fresh start.

Is your DC now in school or is there another year to go?

If DC is resident with you for more than half the week, you should receive child maintenance. But I suspect this is time to start dusting off your CV.

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