My neighbour has been constantly harassing me for the last 4 years. We live directly next door to each other so there is literally no escaping him. He bangs on my walls from anytime between 10.30pm night up until 4.30am he will do it every 20-30 minutes or so. It's constantly waking me up then making me late getting up for work and the school run. He also shouts abuse to me and calls me really horrible nasty names. He's reported me to the police many times saying i do drugs in my home. (i absolutely do not do any drugs what's so ever) the police have been round id say at least 20 times in the last 3 years, each and every time they have been lovely and polite and saw for themselves i wasn't a drug nor did i live in a drug den. I actually offered the officers to have a look around my home to show i have nothing to hide. When he realises his game isn't working he goes back to banging the walls. Every room in my house conjoins with his. My living room and his hallway share a wall. Our kitchens share a wall. And my sons bedroom conjoins with his bathroom and my bedroom and his bedroom share a wall and he will literally go around his house banging all our walls so loudly its even knocked a photo frame off my living room wall once. Lately he started putting his hoover on and putting it next to the his hallway wall and it really does sound like its in my room. He did this up until 2.30am then continued banging until 4am. I never did anything to this man and he's just making my life such a misery. I feel like I'm just constantly drained and fed up. I keep my TV really low when my son goes to bed at night and try to make as little noise as possible because i dont want him to know I'm in. I'm constantly on egg shells and my anxiety is through the roof. The police do nothing to help. My housing won't help, I've been bidding for homes for 3 years now and I've never even managed to bag even a single viewing. I just don't know how much more i can take this. I have nobody me and my son can go and stay with we are just stuck here suffering. Does anyone know of any help what's so ever to get help to move, i only work part time and every house i find for rent wants at least £600 rent upfront and £600 deposit. I will never be able to afford that kind of money. I really do need any help or advise anyone can give me to help me. I dont want my son to have to live with this anymore ☹
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Hi OP, that sounds awful, you poor thing 
When you say the police and housing won't help what have they actually said? I'm guessing housing told you to keep a diary to begin with? What happened when you came to the end of the diary period? Is your NDN under the same housing/landlord? There is stuff they (and the police) can do but ime you have to really push for it and persevere before they will, I guess it's easier for them if they don't have to 
Tell us what you can/are comfortable with about what's been done up to now and we'll try and help figure out your next move, you shouldn't have to live like this though 
Well done on the logging. Call EHO today and ask what's happening with your case. Tell them you have the log, and when would they like to see it. Don't let them fob you off.
Phone the police and ask to speak to someone about the ongoing harassment, and that you want him served with a harassment warning. Again, don't let them fob you off.
If they aren't forthcoming, ask for managers details and ask to make a formal complaint about the handling of the case.
I know it's hard, but take control back and make the buggers act to protect you!
Ok, last ditch attempt with the council then, tell them you have the diary ready for them to look at and that you're not prepared to keep going round in circles with it, they need to act. If that doesn't work I'm wondering if your MP could help, do some googling and find an email address for them, I'm happy to help you word it if you struggle with stuff like that. It may well be worth attending their surgery too, you'd be amazed what the council/police can suddenly manage to do with an MP's foot up their arse 
You're wasting your time trying to work him out OP, he's obviously a very twisted individual and I doubt it's anything you've done, he just hates the world in all likelihood. You said yourself the police have never found any evidence of the things he accuses you of and I would imagine they have the measure of him by now, it must be completely obvious what kind of person he is.
Again I would have one, last ditch attempt to get them to act. Tell them you want to report him for harassment (rather than noise nuisance specifically) and have as much evidence (a log of events, any recordings etc) together as possible. Explain that you don't feel you're being listened to and that he's making your life unbearable, I might even mention that your MP will have to be your next step if you don't get a reasonable response.
I hope this doesn't sound harsh but it's time to stand up for yourself and DD and push the relevant authorities to take action, the powers and procedures are there for them to use but it seems to take more and more to get them to use them these days, probably largely due to lack of funding sadly. Time to fight back though OP, we'll be here to support you if it helps
Sorry OP (original poster) DD is dear daughter, DS dear son, DH dear husband and so on 
There's a list here www.mumsnet.com/info/acronyms if you come across any more you don't know. Welcome aboard btw (by the way)
I'm glad you're finding the thread useful, sometimes you need an outside perspective before you can see a way forward and a bit of support is never a bad thing. Keep posting, whenever you need to and shout up if you decide to write to your MP or anything and want any help, writing letters is about the only thing I'm actually good at 
Hope your arsehole NDN has been reasonably quiet tonight and you've managed some sleep
Aaargh! I must stop getting threads up on tabs, leaving them there for hours, posting and then discovering that I'm days behind!
Jesus OP. This is horrendous!!
Try the Suzy Lamplugh website too. It's a stalking and harassment organisation.
Not surprised at the Police. What a terrible way for you both to live
Anyway you can get more work? Friends or family to borrow money? Your son's father, can he help? Surely he can't want his son living like this.
Good luck OP
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