I have been invited on a hen night. Originally I said yes but now I realise that I can not afford it.
I live a very frugal lifestyle which suits me and my family very well. By doing so, we can afford a holiday a year, trips out as a family and save presents for birthdays and Christmas.
A lot of my friends don't believe that we don't have a large amount of disposable income because of the holidays trips out etc but the reality is that we can afford these things because everything else is so frugal! We have a tight food budget, second hand clothes etc. This is how we like it and appreciate the good things we get to do because of the savings we make.
So, I was invited on a hen night. I originally said yes but now I have realised that the whole thing will end up costing about £350 which is money that I feel I can't spare. At the time I didn't think and I shouldn't have said yes. This is more than I spend on food each month and will eat into savings we have and ultimately will mean we can't do something as a family (or rather a few things!) I feel I don't like this frugal lifestyle to blow it all on a piss up, basically.
Nothing has been booked but the organisers are upset with me because they don't know how tight my budget actually is month in month out and also because they have been looking into places to stay already for the amount of people who have said yes.
I am so stuck on what to do! I don't want to spend the money but then I don't want to look like a selfish person either.
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Beachcountrysidetown · 18/09/2017 15:07
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