I’m currently really upset with dh. His mum decided to organise a garden party for sil. Didn’t tell dh about it until a week before and made it clear we’d be expected there and got extremely upset when dh said it was against the rules and due to being high risk (diabetic and BAME) we couldn’t go and it should be postponed. (That didn’t go down well)
He got angry phone calls, crying, guilt tripping.. until he relented and said he would go but without us.
He said he’d leave when others arrived so that there would be only six but of course he stayed and there were 9 of them in total.
One of them works in a covid ward and none of them have kept to the rules throughout. Children with friends over etc.
I now feel dh has put us at risk. He’s home now and I have so far learned they put on food and drink. I don’t know if he kept any distance but I’m pretty sure he would have.
Am I just getting too worked up over this? I’m still washing shopping, constantly cleaning and being so careful. I feel like maybe I’m doing too much and I need to chill out a bit but I’m really worried now he’s done this. I have anxiety anyway and I feel by doing this he’s put us all at risk.
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A party in the garden
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Realitea · 14/06/2020 17:44
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