Have an almost 3yr old and 3 month old who has reflux and cries near constantly. Needs to be held for much of the day or screams. Wakes hourly at
night and barely naps in the day. If I put him down for a nap, he will be up again after 10mins. Toddler is a typical toddler who doesn't listen, needs to be asked 100 times to sit down for me to brush her teeth etc. Tandem breastfeeding so always got someone on the boob. I don't even feel like a person. Keep trying to wean the toddler off but she is obsessed. Literally shouts "BOOBY!!!!" at me and grabs at me.
Massively struggling with lockdown, in terms of entertaining toddler and being stuck indoors. Our house is tiny and in a permanent state of disrepair due to renovation work that was started and never finished by OH. Can't afford to get professionals in to finish it. Garden is unusable due to no secure boundaries meaning dogs have ran in several times. OH claims he will fence it but hasn't yet. He's still working so I'm on my own every day.
I'm so tired, the baby is constantly waking for feeds and my little girl is up at 5.30 every day.
I'm miserable, and becoming grumpy and impatient and worry I'm unkind to my kids. I feel like I'm about to seriously lose my temper all the time. Every time I try to do something with my toddlee such as make biscuits or do a puzzle etc, my baby starts screaming. Every time I try and read etc with the baby, my toddler plays up to get my attention.
OH is unsupportive and calls me pathetic etc when I have been upset.
I honestly sometimes just want to escape. I don't even know where to as a life without my kids would be meaningless, but I just want to escape.
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Toomuchtooyoung01 · 11/05/2020 08:53
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