My mum had the results of a biopsy through today. She has a tumour on her lung and she’ll be having an op soon to remove it.
I’m devastated and so scared. But on top of this, I can’t bloody see her due to social distancing. Not just for emotional reasons but to be there to support her post-op if we’re still in lock down. My dad will be with her but I just feel she will need me, we are so close. I can care for her, take the stress off my dad etc.
I’m wondering if there’s a way I can take a test to confirm I don’t have covid then move in with them to help? I have my own family, one child and hubby but this is my mum... and she has cancer. God I feel sick writing that.
Any advice appreciated. Or maybe I’m better off staying at home but feel so helpless.
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My mum has cancer. How can I find a way to be with her?
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StitchInLime · 21/04/2020 21:29
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