When all this first started, my anxiety was through the roof and I had a full blown panic attack for the first time in years. However, as time’s passing, I’m managing to see some positives:
My relationship with 14yo ds has definitely improved, as he’s a much nicer person to be around whilst he’s not in school. There’s no more arguments over getting up in the morning, he’s not in a foul mood after school and is getting on with his schoolwork without much complaint.
He’s always been a very picky eater, but, thanks to some interesting supermarket substitutions, he’s tried more new things these last few weeks than he had in the previous year, and seems to be enjoying things he previously wouldn’t have touched.
We’re both eating less crap as there’s not the temptation of nipping in the shop for sweets/getting an ice cream when the van stops outside/grabbing a chocolate bar when getting milk from the corner shop etc. I’m getting a click and collect or a delivery when I can, supplementing with a veg box/meat box and that is that; not set foot in a shop in weeks.
I’ve overcome my irrational hatred of FaceTime/group video calls and I’m actually talking to friends and family more than usual as we’re arranging regular calls each week.
My house is becoming more organised as I’ve got time to sort out cupboards and drawers that I’ve previously ignored, and have sorted all our clothes out into charity bags which I’ve been putting off for ages.
I’m actually spending less money as I’m not tempted by that middle aisle at Aldi and Lidl, not filling the car up as much as only going out to collect shopping and drop at various people’s houses, and not making as many impulse purchases.
I’m trying to concentrate on the positives and push the negatives to the back of my mind a bit, as I don’t have the best mental health and I’m at risk of obsessing about things, so keeping myself busy is a good distraction.
So, what positives are you all finding in this awful situation?
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40somethingJBJ · 12/04/2020 13:59
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