So I approached the ACU at Birmingham Womens hospital back in Jan about becoming an egg donor. My family is complete now. I'm 32, been thinking about it for some time and thought I'd better get on with it if I'm going to do it.
They were a bit hard to get hold of, kept trying to get me to get my gp to refer me for IVF if I wanted to egg share. I had to speak to 3 people before getting through to them that I just wanted to donate.
I have now been through all the tests, had counselling, written my letter to the receiving parents and any child who might be conceived, but the clinic just don't seem to be interested. They told me I was only the second donor they'd had come forward all year, but I feel as though I am pushing myself onto them.
All along I kept having to continually call to get them to send out my next appt. They would always make them in the evening and then afterwards say, "Oh the receptionists have gone now so we can't make you an appt, we'll send one out." This has happened 3 times and each time I've had to chase it.
The last time I was last there was 8th May, when again I was told my next appt, where we would book in to start, would be sent out. I'm still waiting. I have called and left messages. After a bit of phone tennis someone called me back and we made an appointment over the phone, but the day before it was due they cancelled due to illness and promised to ring first thing Monday morning to re schedule. This was 3 weeks ago.
I feel annoyed that they made out donors were in desperate need, but they don't seem very keen on having my eggs.
If they are as keen as they say, why is no-one at any point saying hang on wasn't that person really interested, I wonder whats going on there. I know they don't want to push people into anything but this is the opposite extreme.
If I was waiting to receive an egg I'd feel really upset about this.
Anyone got any advice or had a similar experience?
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Advice needed- weird situation re egg donation.
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Trebuchet · 25/07/2009 21:07
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