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One egg or two ?

(8 Posts)
OHBollox Tue 23-Dec-08 17:24:35

Anybody else pondering this at the moment ?
I keep reading the multiples threads and shitting myself but don't want to end up with none sad

whoingodsnameami Tue 23-Dec-08 17:32:18

The probability is only one, but if its two, its rearly not as bad as it seems.

whoingodsnameami Tue 23-Dec-08 17:36:53

Put it this way, a coupe of years ago I had 3 children (still have) dts were 3, and ds was 6. My sister also had 3 children, 6months, 4 and 7. She said to me, I dont know how you cope with twins, I could'nt do it, so I said to her, I'd rather be in my position than yours, as you have 3 routines as your dc are all different ages, they are are different development changes, with helping themselves get dressed, brush teeth ect, and feeding, I only had 2 routines to follow, as dts were obviously at the samr development stage.

OHBollox Tue 23-Dec-08 17:52:44

That's true and of course better to have two than none at all.
Are you a very patient, super organised type ?

whoingodsnameami Tue 23-Dec-08 18:39:31

No, lol, but was surprised how I dont struggle to cope like everyone assumes you will, and I am a single mum.

OHBollox Sat 27-Dec-08 13:06:14

Am still very nervous and because it would be a concious decission, to choose twins seems a bit mental lol

brettgirl2 Sun 28-Dec-08 12:48:52

But people who conceive naturally can also end up with twins, you have no idea until the scan.

I suppose it depends on whether you can afford to go through it all again - is the miscarriage rate higher with twins?

OHBollox Sun 28-Dec-08 17:43:20

I think there is a definite risk with a twin pregnancy, plus I'd like a homebirth, which seems to be a battle with twins, hard enough with one around here.
Can't afford wo go's really, shouldn't be having one if i'm honest.
Arghhhh it's so hard to decide.

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