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kezzaaaaaaa · 12/05/2021 09:42

Hiya. Just. Wondering if anyone could help me I'm 9 weeks. Pregnant I went for my scan yesterday just wanting to no. If the dad would be feb 24.th. Or the second one I slept with on the 17th March thanks xx

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UhtredRagnarson · 12/05/2021 09:47

If you’re 9 weeks pregnant you will have had a period between the 24th of feb and the 17th of March.

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RizzleRazzle · 12/05/2021 09:53

9 weeks ago means your last period was 10th March so it's most probably the man from 17th March

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kezzaaaaaaa · 12/05/2021 09:59

My period started on the. 25th feb Cause If it was. Febs. Baby would I not be further along. ? Xx

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kezzaaaaaaa · 12/05/2021 10:07

???

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RizzleRazzle · 12/05/2021 10:12

If your period was 25th Feb then you'd be 11 weeks pregnant?

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RizzleRazzle · 12/05/2021 10:12

And if you had sex the day before your period started then no it wouldn't be that persons

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UhtredRagnarson · 12/05/2021 10:13

@kezzaaaaaaa

My period started on the. 25th feb Cause If it was. Febs. Baby would I not be further along. ? Xx

Yes. Obviously.
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kezzaaaaaaa · 12/05/2021 10:14

It did start on 24th feb but it was. Light then. Stopped. Again. I had. Sex. With. Guy. One. On 25th Aswell on my period. X

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Bundaberg84 · 12/05/2021 10:41

Have you seen a doctor yet?

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Eileen101 · 12/05/2021 10:44

Have you had your booking appointment with the midwife yet? She will go through dates with you then.
If you had a period at the end of Feb, the day after guy 1, it's not going to be his...

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kezzaaaaaaa · 12/05/2021 10:46

Yeah I did. Have. A. Period. On the. 24th. But it was really light then stopped. Then. 25th it. Proper. Started.

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Sparrowfeeder · 12/05/2021 10:53

God, people like you with no clue get pregnant like this and some of us diligently try for years. Life is truly unfair.

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cherrytreecottage · 12/05/2021 10:55

Yeah as others have said, if you had a period on 25th either the day after or the same day as sleeping with the first guy then it's not his.
Depending on your cycle, 17th March would make sense for ovulation and therefore pretty certain the father would be the second guy. However, that's only been 7 weeks since your last period - have they confirmed you're 9 weeks??

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HowsYourHeadHun · 12/05/2021 10:57

@Sparrowfeeder

God, people like you with no clue get pregnant like this and some of us diligently try for years. Life is truly unfair.

That's not a fair comment.
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kezzaaaaaaa · 12/05/2021 10:58

Yeah I had a scan. I'm 9 weeks. Pregnant

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BeingATwatItsABingThing · 12/05/2021 10:58

@Sparrowfeeder

God, people like you with no clue get pregnant like this and some of us diligently try for years. Life is truly unfair.

This is a really unpleasant comment and not fair at all. I’m sorry you are going through fertility issues but that’s no reason to be so judgemental.
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HowsYourHeadHun · 12/05/2021 10:59

I'd say chances are it's the man you slept with in March who is the father.

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NeedCoffeeToSurvive · 12/05/2021 10:59

Wow, just wow.

Seems most likely to be the 2nd guy.

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kezzaaaaaaa · 12/05/2021 11:00

Thank you. I'm sorry if it caused. Drama. On this page. Never meant to. Upset any one x

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HowsYourHeadHun · 12/05/2021 11:02

Don't apologise for being able to get pregnant. It wasn't a fair comment. I feel for people with fertility issues I really do. But they can't come on and be horrible to someone else because of their own struggles. It's mean.

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kezzaaaaaaa · 12/05/2021 11:03

Yeah so do I it just hurt. A. Bit. When they said that xxx

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cherrytreecottage · 12/05/2021 11:05

Has there been anyone else before the first guy in March? When was your last period before 25th March? X

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BeingATwatItsABingThing · 12/05/2021 11:07

You haven’t upset anyone. Infertility upsets people. Trying to conceive really messes with people. I’m still recovering mentally from TTC for a year (others try for so much longer) and I have my baby now. My attitude towards other pregnant people wasn’t always good but I really tried to keep it to myself.

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kezzaaaaaaa · 12/05/2021 11:10

I had. My last. Period. On the. 25th. Feb. But I started. It on 24th but it was. Light then stopped. No. Just I slept with. Someone. On 24th n 25feb then my. Partner. 17th March . Think I slept. We my partner. On the. 16th March Aswell

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