We have been trying for our second baby for 7 months now. It was all so quick with our first (who is now 4yo), we had a chemical pregnancy first month of trying and then got pregnant in the second month of trying.
This time nothing is happening and it's making me feel really low . Since having my son, Doctors think I have endometriosis- I have had loads of tests (no laparoscopy as at the time of being asked about one, we knew we wanted to TTC again fairly soon). I am really worried that this is stopping us.
We have used and done everything, sex every day of the month, sex only during fertile time, superb meets egg plan, pre-seed, conception vitamins for him and her everything even to the point of putting my legs in the air for half an hour after sex and sleeping with a pillow under my hips! Haha!
Nothing has worked . It has been such a shock since it was so easy to fall pregnant with our son and we are still only 25! Many may say that an age gap doesn't matter and it really upsets me when people say "don't worry, there at 16 years between mine". It upsets me because we, as a family, know we do not want more than at 6 year age gap. By that point we know we will call it a a day, no matter what people say about extreme age gaps. There are 14 years between me and my sister and I am more like an auntie to her which I do not want for my children.
I am getting bloods done soon to check if I am ovulating and my thyroid etc. So doctor has been really helpful so far (since I thought I would just be told to leave until 12 months). Doctor and I have an action plan for me which I am happy with.
What more can I do? It's really getting to me and making me feel like a failure.
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FebruaryJuly · 21/07/2020 08:34
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