I'm not sure if this should be in the sex/relationship thread but we are TTC so any advice welcome..
OH has basically no sex drive. I'm incredibly lucky to be able to fall pregnant, I just can't seem to keep hold of them. 2 chemicals in the last 3 months and MMC last year. I've fallen with only DTD once before OV. (I do have 2dc from previous marriage).
I've had blood tests which were 'normal' & waiting to hear back from recurrent miscarriage clinic.
I take 5mg Folic Acid, Vit D, Ubiquinol (only started this 2 weeks ago) & pregnancy supplement. I am also starting baby asprin (which they've put me on before when PG) to see if they help. I started Soy Isoflavones CD4-8 this cycle too.
Sorry, I'm rambling a bit. I don't know what to do to try and get him to DTD more. He's just not interested. If I'm lucky, it will be once a month (if I'm even luckier, it will be around fertile week), I've tried talking to him & explaining that we need to try at least a couple of times, even if it's to 'refresh' his stock but it seems to be falling on deaf ears. I've also asked outright if we can DTD, but then he got huffy and felt as if I was demanding it. Flirting, seduction, nice undies etc have zero effect. He's on Wellman conceive & Maca. I don't in anyway go on about it, if anything, I hardly mention it at all, so I don't think I'm putting pressure on him.
Has anyone had the same problem or got any advice? I'm getting on a bit now and every month counts... I feel as if I'm taking all these supplements to improve the outcome, but it's no good without him & his swimmers to do their bit!!
I think it just feels worse today, I've got my peak on the CB and +opk, so today really is the last day for this month, if not already too late.
Sorry if I sound moany, I just don't know what to do.
Thank you for reading xx
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Blondiemum1980 · 30/06/2020 11:14
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