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BFN frer 10dpo ... still hope?

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shelly10111 · 28/03/2020 15:12

Come on ladies please shed a light, trying for 7 months and I'll be honest each month is breaking my heart and my inner woman. 10dpo really crampy - due on in 4 days, had twinges past two days.

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Eleanorrrelephant · 28/03/2020 15:13

I wouldn’t get your hopes up sorry

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YellowFlower22 · 28/03/2020 15:20

I dont think so..they say that implantation can happen anywhere between 6-12 dpo so it may not of even happened yet. Keep positive 🙏🏼

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Bezalelle · 28/03/2020 16:01

You'll save yourself a lot of stress and heartache if you ditch the FRERs and just test when your period is a day late. I went through the early testing debacle and honestly it's a mug's game. And expensive.

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Eleanorrrelephant · 28/03/2020 16:04

just test when your period is a day late
I agree.
If you test early, you end up wanting to test again the next day and the next day and the next day and the next day to check it’s not positive

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Juno231 · 28/03/2020 16:13

You can have implantation as late as 12 days so you're definitely not out yet. Even if you had implantation at the average 8/9 DPO you could still have too low levels of hcg in your urine for HPTs to be picking it up now.

I say buy a bunch of cheap tests on amazon to satisfy your urge to POAS and save the FRERs for when your period is late :)

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shelly10111 · 28/03/2020 16:29

Thanks ladies I've on the boat a while I don't know why I used my only frer today I was wishful thinking, I get to 8dpo and just give in because that's when I have positives with both my daughters, third and final baby is proving to be rather difficult, just wanted to hear more positivity :) xx

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Chwil20 · 28/03/2020 16:35

I’ve never had a positive with a frer until after my period was due

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MummyT13 · 28/03/2020 16:58

@shelly10111

I'm in exactly the same boat but I do test with IC. I've had 2 chemicals but Im on my 16th month TTC. I'm 10dpo today and all BFN. I'm exhausted and emotionally drained.

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shelly10111 · 28/03/2020 22:19

@MummyT13 you poor thing I'm only half that and fed up, I caused a huge row with OH too because I was just so moody all day, my own silly fault for testing early ! Just really wanted it to happen by now, we've had 3 chemicals first one I was 5 weeks so was gutted xx