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Sazwest · 23/03/2017 19:08

So went to the docs this morning and explained everything that had been going on this past week docs said by the sounds of it I've had an early miscarriage, I explained I have had some pain on my left side she said to keep an eye on it coz of eptopic pregnancy. The pain got worse by dinner time so I got sent to A & E and got seen by a nurse then senior doctor got all the usual bloods and everything done: After about 2 hours they come back I've had an early miscarriage. Suppose it wasn't meant to be 😢 xx

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WantToGoingTo · 23/03/2017 19:28

Aww saz I am so sorry to hear that, difficult news to receive. Look after yourself Flowers

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Sazwest · 23/03/2017 19:34

Thanks @WantToGoingTo I'm guessing it wasn't meant to be this month. Will see what next month brings xx

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NaturWilde · 23/03/2017 20:09

@Sazwest oh goodness, so sorry to hear you've been through all this today! I hope you're managing to rest now.

Of course see what next month brings, but for now allow yourself to feel whatever you need to feel Flowers

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speakfriendandenter · 23/03/2017 20:15

So sorry Saz xx

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Sazwest · 23/03/2017 20:20

Thanks guys I'm ok just guess it wasn't meant to be this month. I said to hubby we won't be actively trying when I ovulate the next time we will still dtd round that time but if it happens it happens xx

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cottoncandee · 23/03/2017 21:00

So sorry to hear that. I know it must be very heartbreaking. :'(

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Fayemay27 · 23/03/2017 22:51

Oh @Sazwest Sad I'm sorry.

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SausageBrain · 24/03/2017 08:32

Oh saz that is so sad, i'm so sorry you've gone through this. look after yourself and be kind to yourself. thinking of you and sending much love Flowers

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MrsGB2225 · 24/03/2017 08:36

Sorry saz Flowers

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Sazwest · 24/03/2017 09:09

Thanks girls xxx

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Sharl2017 · 24/03/2017 18:57

This happened to me last month. I hope you're ok. I know it's hard as you get your hopes up but as you say it wasn't meant to be. Its happened for a reason, keep trying, eat cake & drink wine!CakeWine

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Sazwest · 24/03/2017 19:33

Thanks @Sharl2017 think I'm gonna have a few tonight not touched any in 9 weeks xx

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hanna87 · 24/03/2017 19:48

Aww Sadsorry to hear that Saz.. take out some me time,have a break and don't over think it.. xx

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NaturWilde · 25/03/2017 16:25

How are you @Sazwest?

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Sazwest · 25/03/2017 17:23

I'm ok thank you @NaturWilde xx

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BlueSpottyTiger · 26/03/2017 20:32

I'm so so sorry to hear that saz SadFlowers Goodluck for next month Doll.. were here for you! Xx

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Sazwest · 26/03/2017 20:38

@BlueSpottyTiger thank you. Yes we are definitely trying again hopefully April will be my month 🙂. Xx

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BlueSpottyTiger · 27/03/2017 09:09

I hope it is ❤

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Sazwest · 27/03/2017 10:39

@BlueSpottyTiger how are you doing xx

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BlueSpottyTiger · 27/03/2017 18:17

I'm good thankyou! Hope your okay?
I'm on cd 8 and just started to get good colour on opk building up to ov. Are you on the April bus? X

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Sazwest · 27/03/2017 18:43

I deffo am my app says I ovulate 4th April. But can fall pregnant from 30th-5th. Not sure weather to do opks or just make sure we dtd everyday or every other day ( so there's a constant supply) ( with sperm living for up to 5 days) . Don't want to get like I was last month and be like a crazy lady. My AF will be due 18th next month and we go away 17th so I'm gonna be good and not test until we get back if she doesn't arrive whilst I'm away xx

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BlueSpottyTiger · 27/03/2017 20:02

Oh that will be nice where are you going?
I hope you can wait! I couldn't i would be taking tests with me 😂
I'm due af on the 15th, so will prob test from a few days before.. i have no patience!
See an online calculator puts my ovulation at the 2nd but i can't see it being that late, i reckon it will be the next few days so started dtd on cd 6.
Yeah you could always just dtd every day or everyother without using opks and relax this cycle xx

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Sazwest · 27/03/2017 20:15

@BlueSpottyTiger I only just stopped bleeding on Sunday. My app says the 4th for ovulation but not sure ( I might have a cheeky check each morning and night ) how any times a day do u do the opks. When would u say to start doing the ions. We dtd 3 times yesterday lol.

Haha I thought of taking test with me.

I'm going to Flamigoland it's a huge theme park and zoo ( not sure if you have ever heard of it ) xx

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Sazwest · 27/03/2017 20:16

Opks not ions xx

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BlueSpottyTiger · 27/03/2017 20:25

Oh yeah ive been flamingo land! It was about 10years ago mind .. its was great!
Hope you have a fab time!
3 times!?!?!?! 😵 i dno where you get the energy from with 3 kids, i only have 1 and i struggle finding the time ( and effort) to dtd once aday 😂
I usually do opks am and pm but today i only did one at lunch time ish. might do one before bed for good measure! I dont usually have a cd i start using opks but yesterday it was white and today it's like this.

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