Everyone says there's never the "right" time to start a family but I would just like some reassurance or advice.
I'm 28, me and DH have been together for 7 years, very happy, and have our own house with a very sensible mortgage. Both full time employment. He's always been broody/ desperate for children but I've always been "Yes but not right now" as honestly, I wasn't ready to 'give up' my selfish life and kids seemed like a hassle (not to sound awful!).
In the past 2 weeks I've taken a COMPLETE u- turn and want to start TTC at the beginning of 2017. Children now seem wonderful and a family sounds lovely.
A few things to note; I've been a bit depressed lately, feeling goalless, unmotivated and unsure what to do with myself. I've not been enjoying work for months (It's the people, not the actual job itsself and I would return to work after maternity leave). Also a few friends/ acquaintances have recently announced their pregnancies.
Basically, have I just changed my mind because I'm stuck in a rut? Or is seeing how happy everybody is made me realise that we shouldn't put off a family any longer? I'm delighted to be so excited for a family but after so many years of being unsure I don't trust my own judgement.
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adriana0pal13 · 18/11/2016 11:38
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