I'm 33 (just turned). Although I always wanted kids, I also wanted to make sure it was with the right guy: this was really important to me (I grew up with a very disinterested dad who doesn't even know when my birthday is, how old I am, what I studied...I didn't want that for my kids.) I was willing to sacrifice having kids if I never met the right guy.
Finally! I found him! And we're getting married this year.
However: I still have to finish my NQT year (teaching qualification). We are abroad right now, and can't realistically return to the UK until February 2017. That gives me some time to find a teaching post, then I could complete it in July 2018.
It just sounds SO far away. I would be 35 by then, and I'm worried I wouldn't be able to conceive. I know plenty of women do, but then...many don't too.
I really want the stability of having my teaching qualification done so that I always have the ability to earn a decent wage. I don't want to do my NQT with a child because I know I probably can't cope with both. We really can't go back sooner because I'm under contract. Besides which, I'd like to spend some time post-marriage just enjoying time with my husband.
I know no one can predict the future. I just can't help worrying.
As far as I know, no problems with infertility, periods are regular, mum and gran both had kids in their 30s.
Am I taking a huge risk that I'll regret?
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seoulsurvivor · 18/02/2016 08:22
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