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Missr94 Sun 06-Dec-15 12:47:27

Basically I'm pregnant and I've been given a temporary due date 30/06/16 but I'm not sure on that. The thing is I slept with two guys, my ex partner who I hope it is. And someone I was meeting, both unprotected. I took a blue clear week indicators test and it said 2-3 weeks.. At this point I had slept with the guy I was meeting just a week before but my ex 3 weeks before. I'm swinging towards my ex with all the signs but I'm wanting some advice on what others think? It's my first pregnancy so I don't know how all this works out.

wantingno2 Sun 06-Dec-15 13:58:50

If it sess your 2-3 weeks pregnant then ur 5 weeks when was your last period I would say its ur ex's baby but only you can be sure of your dates have you told your ex you slept with someone else??

Oysterbabe Sun 06-Dec-15 13:59:42

Are your periods regular? If so date it from the first day of your last period.
Ignore the clear blue test, they're meaningless.
Either way you'll need a DNA test post birth to be sure.

gamerchick Sun 06-Dec-15 14:02:26

Those tests are a pile of garbage for predicting how far on you are. I wish to god they were never invented.

First day of last period if regular and let the scan date you and if still not sure when the baby is here then take a dna test.

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Missr94 Mon 07-Dec-15 00:31:32

They both know that I'm pregnant Yes but I think I missed a period before I slept with the second guy which is why I'm heading more towards my ex and yes. I kind of worked out my last period and my midwife said I'll be around 10 weeks which means it will definitely be my exs. It had only been a few days after sleeping with the second guy that I took the first pregnancy test and it said positive. So I think maybe I was already pregnant when I slept with him.. Plus it was just the once and he pulled out so I'm not too certain.

Runner05 Mon 07-Dec-15 01:28:36

Just the once and pulling out mean nothing I'm afraid but if you took the test lass than 8 days after sleeping with the second guy then it is biologically almost impossible that it's his as even if you slept with him the day you ovulated the egg would still need to implant before you got a positive test and that takes several days.

Missr94 Mon 07-Dec-15 11:53:21

I think I had my last period around the 8th September so that would make it me ex I'm thinking.

Missr94 Mon 07-Dec-15 11:55:19

And I took the clear blue weeks indicator test a week and 4 days after I slept with the second guy. So would it even show up with 2-3 weeks? I'm so worried.

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut Mon 07-Dec-15 12:00:06

If the midwife has given given you an Estimated Due Date of 30 June based on your last period you must be 10-11 weeks: my due date is estimated at 29 June and I'm almost 11 weeks now. Those conception indicators are absolutely useless, is my understanding.

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut Mon 07-Dec-15 12:02:32

Although if you had your last period on 08 September I think you should be further on than me - mine was towards the end of September. Have you been offered a dating scan yet? That might help.

Missr94 Mon 07-Dec-15 13:57:51

Well I have my dating scan on the 15th but I missed a period before I even slept with the second guy. Is it possible that I slept with him whilst pregnant without realising?

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut Mon 07-Dec-15 17:07:52

Why would it not be possible? If you weren't trying to conceive and weren't keeping a close watch on your cycles, then surely it would be quite easy not to have realised you were pregnant?

I would think that if you'd already missed your period, you were already pregnant at that point. As Runner05 said, if you got a positive test only a very few days after sleeping with the second guy, it's incredibly unlikely that he is the father.

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut Mon 07-Dec-15 17:08:15

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YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut Mon 07-Dec-15 17:09:56

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Missr94 Mon 07-Dec-15 17:25:21

That's why I'm thinking it's more likely to be my exs baby. All the signs show that's is if I'm correct. I spoke to my mum and she's certain I missed my period in October too as I live with her. And I wondered if the test would show up pregnant and 2-3 weeks if I had only just conceived etc?

Missr94 Mon 07-Dec-15 17:36:53

That's why I'm thinking it's more likely to be my exs baby. All the signs show that's is if I'm correct. I spoke to my mum and she's certain I missed my period in October too as I live with her. And I wondered if the test would show up pregnant and 2-3 weeks if I had only just conceived etc?

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