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Tough day :(

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rainbowbreeze · 07/04/2013 20:17

Was a godmum today for my mates son so should have been a lovely day.. and it was until 2 of my friends told me they were pregnant within about a minute of each other Shock

Cue tears from me and that horrible feeling when life seems so unfair Angry 2 and a half years ttc when will it be our turn ??!

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MrsAVB · 07/04/2013 20:27

Ohh rainbow, I don't really have anything helpful to say but didn't want to read and run. That must've been hard, and you sound like a brilliant friends and a great god mum.
Hugs xxx

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Katnisscupcake · 07/04/2013 20:32

So sorry rainbow...

I've had a crap day aswell... only 8dpo and spotting started already. I am 39 in June and just feel that time is running out. I've actually started avoiding friends who are pg now as it's too upsetting.

I hooey things work out for you.

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rainbowbreeze · 07/04/2013 20:43

It's awful isn't it, you're happy for your mates but so sad for yourself ... So tough!

Hope it works out for you too

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Happilymarried155 · 07/04/2013 20:52

Really so sorry..... It's so tough. For three close friends who are pregnant, I'm so happy for them but can't help feeling insanely jelous and then so sad. The amount of times I've said to my dh when's it our turn is crazy. You just have to keep believing one day it WILL be your turn and when it is it will be all the more special. Hugs to you :)

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twinklestar2 · 07/04/2013 23:23

Hugs from me too. I know how you feel.

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madonnawhore · 07/04/2013 23:30

I know exactly how you feel.

Flowers

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Pipbin · 07/04/2013 23:38

I've lost count of the number of times I've been there.
If it wasn't for the ladies on the Elderberries thread I'd think I was the only one who had a problem.

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cwtching · 08/04/2013 01:36

I'm so sorry, its the worst feeling. I just wanted you to know you aren't alone. Big hugs x

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RedRobin1 · 08/04/2013 22:09

Sorry rainbow know how you feel. It will be our turn soon. One day, we will be announcing our pregnancies - IT WILL HAPPEN.

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Bearface · 09/04/2013 19:48

Yep - I've been there too. Thanks

I do the whole rollercoaster of wishing, hoping and believing followed by the misery and anger, but I always manage to pick myself up again somehow. I sometimes feel it's getting easier and then it gets harder again to deal with it all. Sad Sending you a sly hand squeeze.

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