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Another month, another failure, another two friends with scan photos on FB

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Littlebearlost Sun 20-Jan-13 15:21:56

So fed up. Horrific pmt. no baby again. Two more people on FB with scan photos announcing that it happened immediately for them. It would appear that pretty much everyone I know is pregnant. Or just had a baby.
I am a terrible person. I am very jealous. I may have to come off FB.

I wish the terrible pmt would go away. I feel murderous! Dh is scared and is keeping out of my way.

stephbecominglittler Sun 20-Jan-13 15:25:19

I no how u feel Hun am goin thru exact same thing all friends people on fb ect sad x x here to talk

lyndsey90 Sun 20-Jan-13 15:31:30

One of my school friends has just announced on fb her pregnancy. Which she didn't TTC and she's 13 weeks, know how you feel. Xx

blondebaby111 Sun 20-Jan-13 15:54:37

smile I know how u feel. I think I'm fine and coping with it all and then I see another annoucement on fb. Yourr not alone in feeling like this. Also I'm seeing people I've been to school with put pics up of their choldren that are now teenagers or older which obviously makes me feel my age and feel like I'm beeing left behind! Yes, these people had their children so young and I thought I'd be sensible and wait til I was older but now I'm just so jealous! All these feelings are perfectly normal littlebear but it just makes you feel life is unfair!!

How long have u been trying for if u don't mind me asking?? Xx

blondebaby111 Sun 20-Jan-13 15:55:21

Sorry, that was meant to be a sad face, not a smile!! sad

Littlebearlost Sun 20-Jan-13 16:35:53

16 months. What about you?

blondebaby111 Sun 20-Jan-13 16:46:41

Nearly 5 years sad we went thru ivf end of last year which didn't work and we try again in the spring. I'm 36 this year so I worry time is running out. I know its hard but stay positive, we are all here to help each other xx

blondebaby111 Sun 20-Jan-13 16:47:44

Have u had any investigations done?? It took us over two years to go to get checked out x

DoctorWhoFan Sun 20-Jan-13 18:12:24

Oh I'm so there with you. Been trying for 2 years, sister in law fell pregnant recently even though she was on the pill. Makes me want to spit! Especially as I'm 45 now. I just feel like my time us rapidly running out sad

Hamling1984 Tue 22-Jan-13 22:28:12

Hey all I'm new here and still getting use to the site,as for the abbreviations I don't have a clue about half of them!! I do know how u all feel aswell,I do have a little girl aged 9 but we have been ttc our 2nd for 8 years sad found out within the last 2 years I have pcos and that I don't ovulate but still dtd I case a miracle occurs lol..... Fb is definitely a killer of the emotions,so many pregnancies and one of my friends asked me to be there for her twice to have abortions at one point and she knows very well of my situation!! It's all so emotional and well the feelings and thoughts I have had towards others at times have been horrid !! Nice to know people out there are going through the same as me,big hugs to all xx

Essexgirlupnorth Wed 23-Jan-13 21:22:38

Feel exactly the same we have been trying 16 months too. Have had tests done at fertility clinic and waiting too see the consultant.
Facebook friends aren't so bad it's the really smug pregnant woman at work that I am finding hard at the moment. This is her second the first she got pregnant first month of trying an the second took longer and she was complaining so much about not being pregnant. I just wanted to slap her. At least she is going on mat leave soon.

BJZebra Wed 23-Jan-13 21:28:43

You are not a terrible person. I was quietly insanely jealous of anyone I knew who got pregnant. FB makes me jealous just looking at other peoples apparently fabulous lives hmm

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