Need some positive stories and reassurance

[gemdrop84]

Been ttc dc2 for a while now. 2 mcs and a chemical pregnancy later I'm starting to feel like there's something really wrong with me We took a break and now trying again but I'm not feeling too positive. Suppose I just feeling a bit beaten down by it all today and need some kind words and reassurance that I'm not the only one feeling this inadequate and there can be a happy ending.

[GenericDietCola]

Sorry to hear of your losses. I'm in a similar position, TTC DC2 and had 2mcs during just over a year of trying (another mc before DD). If it helps, you may be eligible for testing for RMC since you have had three in a row. Hope you get there in the end.

[Maghribia]

Oh darling, I know exactly how you feel.

The only time I've been pregnant, it ended in MC. It was an early MC but still very very upsetting.

I got some pretty tactless comments as well, eg "it was a good start anyway, even though you didn't carry it to term" "no wonder since you're stressing about it all the time" etc.

I'm sure on top of that you've got comments about at least you already have a child and so on. I always dreamed of a big family growing up, a lot of people say "if you have just one child with your treatment that will be enough" but it's not that simple! Having said that the rate I'm going I will get down on my knees and say thank you for the one, but that doesn't apply to you so don't want to go off topic too much.

Usually I'm a very happy and bubbly person but I'm feeling really mis lately about it all. It's impossible to keep positive constantly. I know exactly how you feel.

Big unmumsnetty hugs from me and fingers crossed for you to get your next beautiful baby as soon as possible.