How likely is it..

[Tikketyboo]

That I am pregnant???
I am 6 days late for my period although have no other symptoms.
Came of the pill 4-5 months ago as it was causing me a few problems.
Have only had unprotected sex once since last period (few to many wines) and now I'm to scared to test.
So how likely is it (I know it is possible just praying I'm not)
Thanks for help

[BreeVanDerTramp]

DH and I had unprotected sex once 4 months ago (he was working away so I am sure of this).

I am 4 months pregnant. Did you use another method of contraceptive? Have you tested?

[Tikketyboo]

No didn't use anything else not tested too scared I know I'm going to have to :(

[PhoenixFromTheFlames]

What cycle day was the unprotected sex? Periods can be late due to a late ovulation, especially if you're cycle is messed up by the pill or if you're stressed. Test in the morning. Don't out the testing off, you either are or you're not...putting off testing isn't going to change that!

[BreeVanDerTramp]

I was bang in the middle of cycle when it happened, there is only a couple of days in month you can conceive so possibly okay?

Are your periods always on time? Do you have any pregnancy symptoms?

[Tikketyboo]

No don't have any symptoms usually few days early if anything would have been 14 days after first day of period did have a days spotting about day 21-22 thought period was going to come early as usually get spotting few days before will test next week if nothing happens the only thing I'm stressed about phoenix is maybe being pregnant lol thanks for the hand holding :)

[izzybizzybuzzybees]

Sorry to say it but if you had sex 14 days after your period that's mid cycle and ov would be around then. Also spotting could indicate implantation bleeding. Get a test and see what it says. Hope things turn out the way you hope

[Tikketyboo]

Thanks guys :)

[PhoenixFromTheFlames]

I agree cd14 is likely to be fertile time I'm afraid. If you're already 6 days late, a test is likely to be conclusive. Put yourself out of your misery!

[Tikketyboo]

Hi I tested it said positive might take a little getting used too worked out 'I'm 5 weeks. Test's aren't very likely to be wrong are they??

[PhoenixFromTheFlames]

Not usually! How so you feel?

[Tikketyboo]

Bit shocked moved overseas in August so none of my family here and my mum did lot's of hand holding with my other 2 DC. Once i get my head around it think will be ok but been awake all night worrying that maybe test was wrong or something will go wrong which makes me think maybe I am happy silly I know :)

[TheFirstMrsGClooney]

Couldn't read and run. Was in your position in the summer, unplanned 3rd pg after only one possible 'incident'. Now 36 weeks with a DD.

It was a big shock for us, not least me career-wise as im a selfish cow and it took a few weeks to get our heads round it, but we are now looking forward to it. Not to mention DS1&2 are excited about a baby sister. Finding out the sex was important for us this time around (we didn't want to know with the boys) and helped us tell the boys and plan things a bit better.

Thankfully we hadn't got round to chucking out pram and Moses basket...

Anyway I hope you are ok, the above might not help I know just thought I would share.

Look after yourself.

[PhoenixFromTheFlames]

You'll need to test again to convince yourself! Bless you, being away from family must make it harder. Is your OH supportive?
MrsClooney speaks from experience, wise words to take on board there!
I hope you get your head round the idea soon.

[Tikketyboo]

Thanks, will go see Dr tomorrow (today is a public holiday)He is being supportive was as shocked as me lol, really appreciated your hand holding thank you

[BreeVanDerTramp]

Hope it goes ok tomorrow, we lived overseas with DS 1 & 2 and found quickly that we made such great friends we didn't miss the family support as much. I hope this is the case for you

We had unfortunately got rid of all baby bits so starting again with the spending!