I am in shock and can't stop crying!!
I had a MMC in April after a very difficult 12 weeks of pregnancy. I had really bad morning sickness and some bleeding. I had 5 days off sick before my MMC, however I know I was no where near on form!! I then had 2.5 weeks after MMC due to an infection after ERPC and recovery time.
I met with my boss today for my half year review. I knew my performance had not been good, but I was totally shocked with the lack of empathy from my 'female' boss. I was told that my pregnancy had impacted on my work and that I had taken to much time off, which had impacted on my team (I am a Bank Manager!). She then suggested that I wait till next year before trying again so that I can focus on my job and turning my performance around.
I burst into tears, which is probably down to my AF arriving the other day (we have started trying again). I asked her to end the meeting, grabbed my bag and left. Cried all the way home!!
I can't believe this has been said to me. I have written it all down and will be reporting it, but it does not take the hurt away.
Oh and I want a baby more then a job working for someone like that!!
Sorry for the rant!!!
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Boss recommended not to try for a baby again after MMC this year otherwise it will effect my career!!!
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Figaro82 · 15/07/2011 20:03
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