please someone talk sense to me and stop a phantom

[secretlywishing]

i had the symptoms, the tingly boobs, cm, nausea and overwheling urge to sleep. just like i did with my ds.
i still havent got my af, just spotting every so slightly,which is strange as im normally really heavy

and yet the tests say No

i feel like crying sod it i am crying.

dh thinks its stress, he could be right, but all the other signs .... i dont know

nurse wants me to submit a urnine test, but the digital clearblue just keeps saying not pregnant so i dont know why i need to still put a sample in

sorry for moaning, :(

xx

[PrincessScrumpy]

When was AF due and when did you start spotting?

Could be too early and the hormones haven't risen yet - fingers crossed for you! xx

[secretlywishing]

hi princess, i was moaning in the preg forum n u replied:-)

i was af friday/saturday, started spotting saturday (or friday lost track)

im just gutted the test i have just done has come back neg, i just got my hopes up with all the symptoms

gutted is definately the word

thanks replying
xx

[ovumahead]

Hi, how are you feeling now? Sorry things aren't clear yet. I'm going through something similar, loads of pg symptoms, really sore boobs from middle of cycle, but just did a sensitive (and expensive) clear blue digital test: 'Not Pregnant' - depressing! Was really convinced. Am due on today. Trying not to maintain hope, or worry that it could be something else up. Had a really weird period last month too. Humph. Bodies! Seemed as soon as I started TTC,my body went all weird! hope you get some clarity soon.

[kateepie2]

I went through something similar last month - I had all the symptoms, but neg tests, and even when AF came I convinced myself I possibly was still pg cos I felt really bloated which I never do on a period.

I have taken steps to preserve my sanity this month, and have bought a fertility thermometer which should be a more reliable guide than my oh so sore boobs (which I never experienced before ttc).

Good luck secretlywishing, I hope it did turn out positive... if not, start charting!

xx

[readytobeamum]

I am in exactly the same boat!! I was convinced I had spotting just before xmas because it was soo light but all neg tests!!!! I have bulk bought BOGOF first response tests from boots online now so I can test as much as I want as I am so impatient!!!

I think that if you stress about it you become convinced you are and imagine the symptoms, I am worried that is what is happening to me!

I am trying to real but it's so hard!!!!

[toytown]

Any news secretlywishing?

[secretlywishing]

well still no af, and even hubby has noticed a change in the boob dept lol. i have been told to make an apt with dr tomorrow as there result also said -ve. im now a lil scared to be honest. i'll post what dr says as soon as i can

thanks for your replies girls

xx

[secretlywishing]

Quick update. I've seen Dr. She said that any negatives before 6 weeks r disregarded.II have to resubmit a sample on 29 but as its a sat I have to do it on Mon morning. If that is meg I have to get a blid test. She said it still sounds positive :) xx