I feel a bit useless for writing this having just read twinmam's post. I hope you'll forgive me and offer some support or guidance anyway.
My DS who is 16 months is undergoing tests for cystic fibrosis. He has had 4 sweat tests but none have collected enough sweat so we are now moving on to genetic testing. He's ill with chest problems almost all of the time.
In May, I got quite depressed with the combination of his illnesses and the uncertainty and work stress. The doctor gave me antidepressants which seemed to be helping. We went on holiday for two weeks and he was well.
Then we came back. He got a chest infection and was on antibiotics and ventolin for 2 weeks. Immediately he got better, my DD who is 4 got a bad case of tonsillitis. She was ill for a week and is still on antibiotics. She has been better since last wednesday. Yesterday, DS started showing signs of another chest infection, today he is coughing lots and has a temperature again.
I am so tired and worried and stressed and it seems never ending. I seem to be no closer to any answers and I am finding it impossible to cope with a demanding job when I am always worrying about my LOs being so sick.
If anyone has DC with chronic health issues, how do you cope? DH won't acknowledge there is anything wrong, so he has an innocent explanation for everything and he implies that I am neurotic/a hypochondriac for thinking something is wrong. But the consultant thought he should be tested and it is not normal for a 16 month old to have had 4 chest infections, 2 lots of bronchiolitis and 2 lots of pneumonia in 8 months.
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Struggling with poorly children
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strawberrycornetto · 05/07/2009 08:52
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