My just turned 4 DS had bronchitis as a baby and was hospitalised on breathing and feeding equipment and was kept in for a week. Since then every winter he gets terrible chest infections. Normally end up in a&e and with steroids. Last year my gp said although it’s very young to diagnose asthma she felt he was so gave him a blue inhaler and Montelukast to keep in the house for future. Had occasional flare up but nothing major until this morning. He woke up at 6am having a terrible attack. Really scary I gave him 4 puffs and the Montelukast. It seemed to help so at 8am called my dr. The earliest appt they had was with the prescribing nurse so I took that.
When we arrived we were 5min late (ds had been coughing so much and threw up so had to clean him up just as we were leaving the house) the nurse was very angry about this but then allowed us to see her once the reception staff explained my reason.
She was very off during the appointment. I explained the situation of why we were there. She listens to his chest and says she can hear nothing. Didn’t look in his mouth and was sharp with Ds. I told her every year it is the same I have seen him like this before and he is about to need an ambulance. I explained I was very very worried. Also explained I have 4 children so would like to prevent a hospital admission if possible not to mention how distressing Ds finds it. I was calm and respectful she was not. In a rude manner she said I can see nothing wrong with your son. If you don’t trust my judgement see someone else. So I said yes I want to see someone else.
Waited for the duty dr who looked in ds mouth and found enlarged tonsils and noted that the meds I had given were probably working and at this stage nothing else was needed.
Went back home and was very worried. Within 10min his breathing was so bad and this time the inhalers were not helping. Called back to the dr took hours for a call back and then was told to come back in. Dr took one look at son and said he is having an asthma attack and he needs steroids. He also informed me it was never written on DS notes that he is asthmatic. Hence why the nurse thought I was making it up and wouldn’t listen to me. It took a total of 11 hours 3 dr appointments and 5 phone calls to get the medicine he needed. By the time we got the medicine from the chemist DS was really not well. Gave the steroids as soon as I got home from chemist at 8pm
Now 1am DS has just had the scariest astmah attack so gave the 10puffs and 30min later it has calmed down. He has gone to sleep and is snoring loudly but I don’t see laboured breathing.
I am so tearful I don’t really know why I’m posting this. I have spent the day knowing that he was about to get really sick and that he needed steroids but no one would listen.
Is this just how it is? DS has never had any kind of clinic for asthma and after being given a stash of inhaler and pills a year ago we have just been left to get on with it. I realise now that he should have been given a brown inhaler too and regular check ups.
Even this morning with the nurse she gave me no advice of how to care for a child that had an asthma attack only hours before and she clearly didn’t believe me
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Asthma and so upset
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Sunshinefor4 · 06/10/2017 01:36
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