I'm really after any advice, especially from anyone who might feel the same way. I'm really useless when my children are poorly. Not when they've got fairly minor things like colds but with more significant things I fall apart.
Just after DD2 was born she was very poorly with what was finally diagnosed as silent reflux, we spent a lot of time in and out of hospital and I was absolutely terrified we were going to lose her. By complete coincidence and horrible bad luck DD2 - just 17 months at the time also became very poorly with croup and was hospitalised at the same time. It really was the worst period of my life and I don't feel like I coped at all. My DH and my parents were amazing and eventually we made it out the other side. Since then I have been so frightened of my children becoming ill again and at the moment my older one has been ill with a virus, nasty sore throat, temp etc for a week and my baby has gone down with it today. I've sat up with her pretty much all night so far and I'm just beside myself, I don't know how best to calm her, she's gagging on phlegm and I can't seem to help her. She has nodded off now but I'm just dreading what tomorrow will bring.
If anyone else has experienced this and has any advice I would really appreciate hearing it.
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Hopeless when children are poorly
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Nicae · 27/02/2017 00:57
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