Hi,
I really need some advice. My dd 4 was referred for a tonsillectomy and possible adenoids removal along with ear microsuction for excessive earwax. She was meant to have the op this week but it was cancelled due to her being ill.
The registrar we saw has put doubts in our minds.
The reason i originally got the referral was due to poor sleep, large tonsils, breathing through her mouth a lot, nasally voice, repeated infections (not necessarily tonsillitis) etc.
She had a sleep study done which showed no apnoea but some disturbance when she changed positions.
However literally a couple of weeks after our last ENT appointment where the specialist said she was a borderline case, her sleep improved. No more snoring, no more finding her in a sweaty mess struggling to catch her breath etc.
I decided to wait and see and now fast forward a few months to her op. Whilst meeting with the registrar on his round he said "oh her tonsils arent that big, i dont think her adenoids are causing the breathing problem. Taking them out won't necessarily solve her sleeping issues..but we'll take them out if she's getting recurring tonsillitis".
Which has totally confused us.
She still sleeps with her mouth open, grinds her teeth, doesnt sleep any where near as quietly as her sister, but doesn't really snore either. She wakes up quite tired but She is eating and growing well and seems to be learning well at school.
She does suffer terribly with colds, they drag on and on and she is highly susceptible to any viruses doing the rounds and she seems to get them so much worse than ither children or her sibling.
My husband and i genuinely don't know what to do for the best. We are currently waiting for a new appointment for the op.
Any thoughts/advice would be great thank you.
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Would you let your child have a tonsillectomy in a borderline case?
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Nerris · 16/12/2016 14:50
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