DD (12) is having an operation on her hip on Thursday, she's stressed to the eyeballs and is being downright rude and unpleasant alternating with tears and the occasional apology. It's been going on for months now as we've been waiting on an NHS waiting list.
It's all having a knock on impact on DS (17) who is trying to do EPQ work and a part time job and on me who is trying to be the peace keeper between them both and helping DD to cope.
I'm struggling to cope now, months of being the one sorting out all the the pain, the problems it has caused with school, activities as she's had to be a couch potato which has not gone down well and not being able to do things with her friends.
I don't know how to help her, she's having massive anger management issues now and her way of letting off steam was to kick a ball around or go for a run but she can't do either. She's therefore shouting at me, calling me names and generally being unpleasant when she's angry and stressed. She needs to be on medication for the pain but is refusing to take it until the pain is "intense" and won't accept that it is too late, she hates being on medication and I think there is an element of control in her refusal.
I'm at the end of my tether now.
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SvalbardianPenguin · 06/08/2016 19:55
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