Our daughter is 2 years old. recently there have been a few things to knock her off kilter and make her behaviour change a little.
Firstly myself and hy husband are separated so she has been having to adjust to the new setup after having him around all of the time. Secondly she has just moved up to an older class in her nursery .
Now my concerns.....it took her a while to getting settle within nursery, but we got there eventually - however she has now moved up a class with slightly older children.
She now absolutely hates going to nursery again and absolutely bawls her eyes out and she is very much more clingy at home.
On Tuesday however when taking her to nursery she stated that she didn't want to go....no like man. I wasn't aware but it turns out that the owner/managers husband helps out sometimes within ehe classes.
This had me concerned but I came to the conclusion that I was getting paranoid.
But the same evening I was changing her nappy, and after cleaning her I had a quick examine down there to make sure she wasn't sore as she seems to be feeling sore when she goes to wee.
As I was having a look down there she chirped up with out of the blue, where mummys phone?
The phone was on silent, hadn't made an noises and she does not play with it when getting changed.
This has now caused me a great deal of concern and I really don't know what to do.
The element of doubt has now been put in my mind so no matter what else I do I am removing my daughter from that nursery....as I will always be wondering.
But IS it paranoia? Is it possible to broach this with staff or will they report it to the manager/owner as it is HER husband this involves?
If I decided to make it into a formal meeting addressing my concern WHO should I involve in the meeting?
Im not one of those that jump up and down at men who work in schools, nurseries, crèches etc.....it is nice to have both sexes working and if something untoward is going to happen it is just as likely to happen from a female.
I am just worried. Peoples thoughts and opinions would be appreciated. Like I said, regardless I'm pulling my daughter out, but is it paranoia or do I need to speak to someone?!
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chr1ssy0908 · 14/10/2015 18:35
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