My 4 years old daughter has a blocked pour on her eye lid. She needs surgery to have it drained. Surgery is booked for next Thursday. (if I was in the UK this would be a 6 months wait.)
The plan as it stands is a full anesthetic, they reverse the eye lid, do a small cut and then a blob of antibiotic. We did talk about giving her camfetamine and a local anesthetic.
I think I have two options.
- Treat her like an adult. Tell her whats going to happen. She'll freak and be worried all week.
- Don't tell her. Take to hospital and tell her that she's having a check up. Say the injection is an immunisation that may make her tired. Basically blag the whole thing. I'm confident I can get away with this.
Basically I'm torn between being honest and being protective. Which option should I do?