DS2 is 12, in Y7 and suffers from migraines. Sometimes he can go months without one and then have several in one month. When he has one, he needs to lie down in a dark room, can't bear light and will sometimes be sick. It takes him about two and a half days to completely recover. This has obviously meant some time off school. Last year our GP referred him to a neurologist, who has prescribed him some tablets which ease the symptoms but don't stop or prevent them. We have noticed links between certain foods and have stopped him eating those now.
Recently, he has also had time off for sickness bugs going around the school which also affected his brother and his friends. The attendance officers have started ringing me up after I've rang in to say he won't be in. Although quite pleasant, their attitude seems to be that DS is somehow avoiding going to school and we should be encouraging him back. When I explain what migraines involve and that DS is not unhappy at school, just wouldn't be able to function there that day, they seem surprised - every time!
I have now received a letter from one of the two attendance officers "expressing her concern" at DS's level of attendance and to invite me to a meeting to discuss how working together could "enable his attendance to improve." They have also started DS at a lunchtime weekly attendance group where the children have been warned that their parents may have to pay hundreds of pounds in fines if their attendance doesn't improve. He is a quiet, sensible boy who doesn't mind school and would certainly rather be well at school than suffering at home, and this has worried him.
All of DS's non-attendance is due to ill health. I have never taken either of my children out of school for any other reason.
I will, of course, be attending the meeting and plan to bring the form from the consultant with me but would appreciate any help on how to deal with either/both the migraines and the school!
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Migraines and school attendance
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Phaedra11 · 15/06/2013 14:59
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