Hi,
my DS (aged 10) has really gotten it into his head that he should be there for the birth of his little sis and will not listen when I explain why he cannot be there..
I've told him;
- the hospital don't allow it - he said he'll sit outside on a chair
- it may be a very long labour - he said he'll sleep on the chair while waiting
- he won't like seeing me in pain - he just shrugged his shoulders and said thats ok and that he is very mature and can handle it...
- I've told him he can come and see her asap - he insists he wants to be there the second she comes
- I've said it might happen while at school - he said I can pick him up on the way..
anyone have any suggestions as to how to handle this stubborn but caring little boy...?