I went for my first consultation yesterday with a registrar to discuss my birth options this time round following my em cs last time.
My request to labour in water was met with a flat "no." When I asked why I was told that "some of the worst tears I've ever seen have been in women who have laboured in water." I questioned this because I believed that one of the benefits of a water birth was less liklihood of tearing or at least reduced severity and she said I was wrong. Apparently the water washes off your natural oils and the skin is less flexible - like when you go all wrinkly after being in the bath for ages. I then pointed out that even if that were true surely the risk would apply equally to all women labouring so why does anyone use water? She said I was at greater risk from tearing as I hsven't yet passed a baby through my fanjo - but surely neither has any 1st time mother and they don't get told that waterbirths aren't an option?
I didn't want to get into a fight but I'm a bit pissed off to be told what I can and can't do - especially if the evidence its being based on is wrong. I have a long time to go yet and I dont feel the need to set anything out in stone yet as a lot could happen between here and now. But if the pool is available and I go into spontaneous labour I'd like the chance to use it.
Bit deflated but don't really know what to do?
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Erm, has anyone ever been told by a consultant that waterbirths lead to worse tears?
wasabipeanut · 25/09/2009 14:43
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