Does any body have any details of a good childbirth counselling service???
My pregnancy went OK until the day itself. 18 hours into the labour and 2 epidurals, 2 shots of pethidine, and various other things to get contractions re-started etc....they worked out that babies back was against mine and I had to have a vontuse. They then took baby away from me straight away to special care unit and I was not allowed out of hospital for 7 days. I think this was all attributable to PND which I suffered after. Even with that I phoned my health vistor and she said she would call back but she never did.
My partner now wants another child and I keep saying yes but deep down I dont feel like I can cope with the fear of labour......I was in so much pain and they made me carry my bags up the stairs to the labour ward and left me alone drugged up in a room until my DH got there which was at least an hour I dont understand how they didn't know the babies position until the end of the labour. Afterwards I was openly told that me and my baby could of died and a lady in the room next to me later told me that she could hear doctors saying how close it was...
Anyway that was 2 years ago now and I just dont know who to talk to. I dont want to get pregnant and hope that all goes well this time as I have little faith in anyone.
My doctor also gave me a smear at my 6 week checkup and as I had over 40 stiches it hurt like hell. Anyway the records have been lost and according to them I have never had a smear so have to have another one...My friend has just told me that for the reason of stiches 6 weeks is too early for a smear.....
Has anyone got any advice???
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horseshoe · 18/01/2005 14:06
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