I know there are a few posts similar to this one but our circumstances are slightly different and I’m keen to hear from anyone who has been in a similar situation.
We’re due to have our first baby in a few months. My parents live 3 hours away and are already asking about visiting once the baby arrives. The issue is that we live in a 1 bed flat and my parents are very intense. My dad had a stroke a few years ago and he can be a handful to manage. He can be a bit like a toddler himself and won’t understand/respect boundaries. If they lived closer I could deal with them ‘popping in’ for short periods but this isn’t as easy when they are travelling so far (by train too). I feel like I’d be babysitting my parents as well as a newborn and living in a small property means I can’t get some space if needed.
As it’s my first I’m already stressed about adjusting to life as a parent. Most of my friends found it really tough and I don’t want additional stress but also appreciate that my parents will want to meet their new grandchild. My OHs parents also live far away but are less likely to put pressure on to see the baby until we’re ready.
Any suggestions about how to handle the situation?
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morningsunrise · 10/02/2020 06:22
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