I'm expecting my second DC after a textbook straightforward birth with DC1 at the local birthing unit.
The midwives are pushing for a home birth again (they did with DC1 too but we opted for the birthing centre) DP has surprised me by being vaguely positive towards the suggestion after feeling it was completely out of the question last time.
However this time we have DC1 and will therefore have childcare issues. It will be a summer birth not a winter birth (this makes a difference, we live remotely and can spend large amount the of winter inaccessible other than by 4x4).
I didn't particularly enjoy the birth centre, despite being the only person in they forgot about me, and I was crowning before anyone checked back on me after 4 hours of being there. I wasn't offered any pain relief and the lovely birthing pool remained very empty as they apparently weren't expecting me to give birth so quickly.
The thing one thing (aside from all of the usual concerns over hospital transfer times etc) putting me off a home birth however is the mess afterwards. Who wants to deal with that after you have just given birth?
Slightly worried about my carpets/ lovely new mattress as well....
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Home Births - who cleans up afterwards?
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pastabest · 30/11/2017 21:14
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