Hi there,
I'm in the very early of stages pregnancy with my 2nd DC. And I know that I will be classed as High risk this time round.
I had issues with the birth of my first, and I thought I was relaxed about how number 2 would go; however, now I'm pregnant it's on my mind and I'm starting to feel anxious and sometimes teary it's like it's all coming back to me.
Anyway, bit of background from DC1:
- easy pregnancy, low risk through out
- went 2 weeks overdue and had episode of reduced movements
- was induced via pessary then drip
- DD was back to back throughout labour and was delivered back to back (apparently that's not ideal!)
- DD was 9lb 12
- I'm 5'6 and size 10 so big baby for me
- delivery was thankfully instrument free
- although I did have an episiotomy
- after delivery I had big PPH and lost 2.5 litres of blood
- had to have blood transfusion and several bags of fluid
- I contracted Sepsis
- was very poorly for a while after birth
- convinced I acquired SPD during labour as I was in agony for 6weeks + post delivery (bent the pram frame from walking in it like a Zimmer frame!) could only lie flat on my back for months. Couldn't roll over. Couldn't turn to my right (had to walk in a big circle) couldn't do stairs etc
- recovered and all fine now
With all the above in mind I'm terrified of going through that again, but I'm also worried about how I would cope after a c-section and a toddler (DD will be 2 years 4 months when DC2 arrives) that said I am genuinely convinced my recovery first time round was much worse than a planned section. I was a mess.
I will need to discuss my fears and circumstances with midwife and consultant in due course but I was hoping that some of you may have some words of advice/input that I can think about over the next couple of weeks.
Thanks for reading