I am 35 weeks this week and so not long to go at all now. Thinking ahead to the birth I've realised that I am slightly anxious about DH being with me when I am in such a primal state. Don't get me wrong, we are very very relaxed in each other's company and think nothing of lounging about naked in the sofa legs akimbo on a hot summer evening, farting etc. We are very close and happy together. However I'd draw the line at peeing in front of each other, and certainly would not have a dump in his company (or vice versa) and, interestingly, I would never cry in front of him. Even when my Mum died I did all my crying in private. It's just how I am. Wouldn't cry in front of anyone else either. I am perfectly emotionally open and will talk about emotional subjects, but I do not get emotional with people I know. Strangers like health professionals, no problem.
We've been lucky that I have never been in severe pain of any kind since we met.
So I am not hugely happy about him seeing me at my most animalistic while in labour, and am wondering how we come back from that. I suppose everyone will say that you just have to go with the flow and it's an amazing bonding experience, and the point is that things will never be the same from then on anyway, in a good way, but I am actually wondering if I'd have preferred the old style Call the Midwife days when the Dad waited outside with a cigar...
Any thoughts?
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JessieMcJessie · 25/07/2016 12:07
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