Apologies but this is not a 'to be mum' but a husband who is looking for answers. I just want the best for my wife and it's apparent that she is pregnant and a bit panicky. So if you can help that would be great.
Context: She is 12 weeks pregnant and expecting in Nov. She had two cycles of IVF but only 1 imputation as the 1st cycle was unsuccessful. She is expecting a single child. She is 30 years in age and of average weight.
The problem: She is scared. Big time regrading her delivery.
We live in Croydon and aren't impressed with the NHS facilities in miles. She already had a botched day surgery prior to us shifting our IVF treatment to far away central london.
Questions for the forum:
- She wants a C-Section delivery rather than natural. Is it best to go private and is this our only option?
- My problem is that someone like Portland are at least 30-40 minutes away in a ambulance from CR7. Won't she have a issue if I book a delivery mid-wife or consultant and she goes into labor with all the travel time.
- I ideally want her to get some antenatal private care also as she frets that she isn't be checked for so many additional things that can be..for e.g. iron deficiency if any to mitigate which she could take some vitamins
- Let's say if Portland say that £10k is the delivery charge for a C-Section but a complication happens. Can they give me a amazingly high £30k inflated bill to handle it or will that complication get treated on NHS. I don't have a £30k budget:-(
My ground work: I have got a list of obsterician's from Portland and I made a few calls who said that they would charge £280 for consultation, £1000-1100 for delivery + Portland charges of around £8-10k for doctor led delivery. Any advises on this also plus the above 4 points will be greatly appreciated from a confused husband.
Apologies for storming into this forum