Title says it all really. Had an horrendous time with DC1, last minute blue light transfer to bigger hospital, midwives reading things off my birth plan then telling me "it says here you don't want us to do this, but we're going to anyway" during my 24th hour of labour.
So, I'm pregnant again. And keen to avoid a repeat of the first time.
Phase 1 of Operation Birth My Way this time is a planned home birth. I have to rely on the NHS as I can't afford a private MW, so I know I will still have to jump through all the standard-issue hoops during my labour, even if it is in my living room.
What I am curious to know is what interventions are available to me at a home birth? I do not want to have another transfer, but last time I ended up having an episiotomy (specifically said I didn't want one on birth plan) and I worry I'll need one again. Do they do these at a home birth, or is this one of those reasons for a transfer?
I know I ought to ask my MW this sort of thing, but so far she's been less than useful. She forgot to save my notes following a booking in appointment, didn't get things sorted out for my first scan, so I turned up and was told they had no record of who I was, tried to reschedule one of my appointments to run during a mother and baby group she had to attend (lots of space to ask all those private questions...)
Any help greatly appreciated. Especially anyone with one of those heartwarming "I went through the same and it was amazing second time round, you'll be fine" anecdotes. I need those.
Ta!
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Interventions available at a home birth?
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Ilovestackingcups · 10/04/2013 14:48
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