Have obviously name changed for this.
I?m 17 weeks with my 3rd and had a third degree tear with DC2. (No apparent reason ? head pushed out very slow, in good position, and baby almost 2 pounds lighter than older sibling, who was nearly 10 pounds and delivered ventuose on back with only 2nd degree tear). Tear was supposedly on the more minor side of third degree.
Tear seemed to heal up fine, in terms of pain, comfort during sex, etc. However, I suffered mild faecal incontinence for several months. Almost forgot about it, except that now I?m pregnant again it is back. This got me to doing research, and I have only recently begun to realise the potential risks of subsequent vaginal birth.
After my tear, I was never given any advise on excercises, referral to phisio, symptoms to look out for, etc. We did move house 8 weeks after the birth, but I would have thought I should have had some sort of advice/exam before then.
I am now concerned about having a vaginal birth. I really don?t want a csection (only traumatic thing about DC2?s birth was the spinal and stitching afterwards!). However, I am very concerned about worsened incontinence. I could deal with what I went through after the last birth ? it was relatively mild compared to some other women, and ultimately it stopped. However, I am much more concerned about worsening or prolonged symptoms, or symptoms that pop up some years down the line.
My consultant has offered me ELCS but not given a recommendation either way. If I went based only on her facts/figures, I would go for a vaginal birth hands down. However, based on my own research, covering medical literature as well as testimonies of mothers who have also considered birthing options after 3rd degree tear (and medical advice they have received!), I feel she has significantly downplayed the risks.
I recently saw a midwife who advised I ask consultant for referral to colorectal surgeon. I am due to see phisio next week. Got in early due to a cancellation. Can anyone who has had phisio after tear related faecal incontinence tell me how effective it has been?
For those who have had ultrasounds and/or other tests to assess your own personal damage, who does this? Is it an ob/gyn, or colorectal surgeon? Was it something you asked for, or was it part of normal follow up?
Have also heard that it is the actual pregnancy itself rather than the delivery that can exacerbate incontinence problems, so if this is the case, ELCS may not actually avoid future problems. Anyone been told this, and if so, by who?
I just want to make sure I am seeing all the right people and getting the right info/advice. When this baby comes, I will have 3 under four, and have no family in the UK, so ELCS is not an easy choice for me.
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Birth options after 3rd degree tear with incontinence
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