Hi, Just joined mumsnet tonight and have been reading all the stories about the horrendous childbirths some of you have had. I had a really rubbish time with my 1st child now 2. I had a very long labour and the dilation was very slow. I ended up having to go to theatre because baby was back to back and they said they would try to turn her and deliver her by foreceps (I also had an episeotomy). Once she was delivered all hell broke loose and all the medical staff were running around and my husband got told to leave the room. They were putting needles in me everywhere i had an inflated blanket put on me, oxygen masks put on etc, just chaoes.
After being in theatre for a few hours I was wheeled into high dependancy, where I was lying there like a rabbit in the healights and not really knowing exactly what had just happened. I remember my mother and husband said that my face had blown up like a balloon but i still don't know why that happened. I was told I had a massive PPH of more than 3500ml and that they had to inflate a balloon into my womb. I remember during the night being so much pain below and screaming at the top of my voice for painkillers. I was kept i high dependancy for 3 days but on day 3 they told me I had a blood clot in my stomach (placenta) and it would need manual removal but there was a chance I would need a hysterectomy. They managed to removed it sucessfully thank god.
I have never been so terrified in my whole life. I never ever want to experience that again but I don't feel the same person anymore. I ended up having to get counselling and when I returned to work after mat leave i went off sick with terrible post traumatic stress and depression. I am feeling so much better and now starting to think about baby number 2 because i'm 31 and don't want to be too old.
Has anyone had the same experience as me and had another baby by c-section? I was told by the Registrar that a c-section increases your chance of pph but my thoughts are, if you are in theatre getting a c-section and things start going wrong again, then at least you are in theatre with a medical team around you.
I would love to hear from you.
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Childbirth - PPH
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Diminskif · 09/09/2011 22:18
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