I had an emcs with my first, after having planned a homebirth I went over 2 weeks overdue, induction, waters broke with meconium, failure to progress, then about to c section and realised I'd magically "progressed", then only allowed to push for 30minutes, then attempted forcepts then emcs....!! I was terrified most of the way through (what didn't help was my waters gushed at 5am and I was left on my own with contractions and midwives attending to a birth on the antenatal ward so I'd already worked myself up into a state at the beginning!
Anyway - I told my midwife I wanted a homebirth and she is cautiously supportive. I have no other risk factors and I'm sure birth 1 wouldn't have been a c section if I'd been in a supportive environment. We're not far from the hospital (10mins by normal car) so I could get there in case of difficulty and I'm happy to be monitored regularly.
The big fear is a scar rupture but I've read its only 1% and that includes those induced (which if I managed to stay home I wouldn't be) and also includes all those that are gradual rather than serious.
I realise IMs do them all the time but we are really not in that price bracket. We have got a trainee doula for support. She has only done a couple of births but as my husband works away I thought it would mean I'd definitely have support whether at home or in hospital and I'd be less likely to get into a state.
I have to see a consultant in 2 weeks who I know will try and talk me out of it, but that's because they only see abnormal births... I don't want to do anything risky at all but it does seem that there is so much more chance of things going "wrong" in hospital in my case than at home.
Any thoughts or advice? Any other VBACers out there? How did you deal with the consultants etc? My midwife has said I'd have to talk to the supervisor of midwives and sign away something about my risks...
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Home VBAC - advice and thoughts?
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emsies · 04/07/2011 08:12
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