Hi ladies,
My first tentative foray into the scary world of childbirth, aka how on earth does this thing get out of me?
I'm 26 weeks with first baby so this is all new for me, and was surprised by something the MW said yesterday so thought I would ask you wise ladies.
People on here seem to talk quite a bit about birth plans, and so I had assumed that everybody had one, and then MW said yesterday, see how you feel at the AN classes, some people want one, some people just go with the flow and see what happens/what they think they need at the time.
So I was a bit surprised, and am now wondering about the pros and cons. Pros of course include having your wishes known and making it clear to everyone how you would like things to happen. But I can't help thinking that there must also be an element of trying to keep things to plan when sometimes it's just not possible, or you change your mind. Does this then give people a feeling of not having done what they 'really' wanted, or having 'failed' if e.g. they wanted minimal pain relief and ended up having loads, as opposed to their only expectations being to arrive at the hospital pregnant, and leave the hospital a mother.
So, thoughts and experiences please...did you do one, are you glad you did, do you regret it, did you stick to it, if not, how did that make you feel? Did you not have one and wish you had? Do you think they're important, or rather like new year's resolutions (designed to be forgotten about 3 days after they've been dreamt up)?
Really appreciate people's thoughts. (Am talking about hospital birth, if that's relevant to people's answers).
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Birth plan...or not?
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Deliaskis · 10/11/2010 15:52
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