She said this to me last night whilst sitting down. I explained that her thighs are not fat; that it is the effect of the skin being pushed against a surface. I demonstrated this by sitting and standing for her for her to see the effects upon my thighs.
She again said this morning thay her thighs are fat, and I said that she is a perfectly healthy weight and that her legs are perfect.
But ... this is scaring me. I have a history of an eating disorder but I am extremely conscious never, ever, to let this show in front of my dds. There is no talk of 'fat' or 'thin' in our house. Just healthy, and feeling good. I always eat well in front of my daughters and am never fussy or picky over my food. I am confident that no negative mesaages are coming from me here.
I asked if the girls at school talk about their bodies in this way. She said no.
They are quite focused on 'healty lifestyles' at school - maybe this contributes?
She's due a YrR height/weight/vision check in 2 weeks at school. I don't think I want her doing this now. What should I do?
She's only just 5 Please advise me to help her.
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Child mental health
5yo dd says her thighs are 'fat'. Please help.
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MolotovCocktail · 28/03/2014 10:43
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