Its my grandmother, She's constantly eating but only easy things that take no prep like biscuits, crisps and fruit, she hadn't cooked a meal since November and can no longer remember how to make a cup of tea (I found that out after being given a cup of vinegar) she constantly thinks she's Hungary and says she hasn't eaten that day even 5-10 minutes after eating a full meal. She's started eating blackberries off the bushes in the lane but then denies it even if caught doing it, she won't even get herself a glass of water so could go all day without a drink if it wasn't for the fact that I care for her and make her a drink several times a day, I've left jugs of squash and water out on the table right next to where she sits and she ignores them.
She don't bath, wash or even comb her hair anymore and wears the same clothes for days, weeks even. In feb she had 2 heart attacks and was in hospital for 2 weeks then had carers coming in everyday in the morning to help bath her as she was refusing any help from family but she just kept telling them to get out of her house, after that she started letting me help her around the house with housework and bathing but in the last 3 months she's started having an attitude with anyone who tries to help her or even enter her house including me and my father (her son) and its getting really hard to be around her, she tells us to get out, says stuff like "oh god it's you again" and "what do you want? Why are you touching that? Go away I can do it myself"
I have to wait until she goes out for one of her many walks a day until I can go in to have a quick tidy up and a few hours later her table is piled high with clothes from her wardrobe, teddies, needles and knitting stuff, well anything she gets her hands on really, I put stuff away to keep it tidy and she gets it all back out again.
We've had to padlock her door key onto a plastic photo keyring thing with my address and phone number written inside it because of the number of times she has lost it and she only remembers to lock her door about 50% of the time but she is very rarely at home because she constantly walks in a loop from her house to my house then over to my dads house then back round again and just will not sit down and rest despite the fact it leaves her in pain due to arthritis in her knees and back pain from a curved spine (she uses a walking stick when she remembers)