Hi everyone, regular poster but have namechanged for this.
I’m having a worrying time with my ds8 who is not making friends at his new school. He was diagnosed hfa very early (aged around 3) and although he’s very bright, cheerful and cheeky, has failed to gel and make friends at his new school.
Quick backstory- I’m his dad and me and my ex split 2 years ago. He moved from a much larger primary at the end of yr1, it was much more diverse in terms of nationality and class. He seemed happy there and had a couple of friends he knew fairly well. His new school is in a quite idyllic village but it’s much smaller and less diverse. My ex works there as a TA (not in his class though) so is able to observe this quite closely.
Me and my ex have a good co parenting relationship and ds has around 60:30 time so he see a lot of me as well as his dm.
At break time he is not mixing at all. He tends to spend all his time talking to himself and playing repetitively which makes him a magnet for bullies and indeed they are starting to pick on him. It seems incidents are happening more and more often, and although the school are doing what they can, he seems to be the perfect target to be made fun of.
This doesn’t seem to be affecting his moods as such, but I worry he’s just burying things. I’ve tried to talk to him about making friends but it’s obvious he suffers from not being able to read social cues in a nt way.
Have any others experienced similar, and if so what could you suggest? I’m worried that the lack of social interaction will be damaging in the long term.
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Worrieddad72 · 10/02/2020 17:22
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