He tells me the horrible things children say or do. I've spoken to the school and they are trying strategies to help, but stuff is still happening.
Aside from that, my heart is breaking but I don't want to make things worse for him or stop him telling me. So how should I react when he tells me the latest horrible thing?
Be matter of fact- well done for telling me. we'll talk to school. You need to do xyz next time.
Or
Say I know how terrible it is, how upsetting it is, how I hate what this child is doing and how my heart is breaking and I wish I could protect him.
I have been doing the first, but wonder if I should be more emotional about it so he knows how very much I care and how very wrong it all is. However, when I was bullied and told my mum it upset her and I stopped telling her (and actually started making up stories about friends) because I didn't want to upset her and felt I'd let her down. Was that a weird reaction on my part? Do most children prefer their parents to say the bully is a horrible child and how upsetting it all is? I don't know.
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What should my reaction to my child be when he discloses bullying to me?
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BurnTheBlackSuit · 24/04/2017 20:58
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